
In 1987, voracious music fans were treated to a variety of new music as the decade grew hotter with heavier beats, wilder hair bands, and groovier RB/Soul hits. The year also paved the way for two powerhouse singers who each formerly left their original bands.
George Michael and Andrew Ridgeley dissolved Wham! in 1986, a mutual decision that allowed George to grow as a solo artist. Before releasing the Faith album, Michael experienced a “bridge” period of music where he performed two duets, the first being the Grammy-Award winning “I Knew You Were Waiting (For Me)” with Motown sensation and icon Aretha Franklin.
Meanwhile, Jody Watley was the female singer in the band Shalamar, who formed in 1977. After several albums, including the song “Dancing in the Sheets,” Watley left Shalamar in 1984 to pursue her own solo career. She would, later in the year 1987, chart with famous songs such as “Don’t You Want Me” and “Looking for a New Love.”
In ’87, Michael and Watley teamed up to sing an emotionally and vocally outstanding cover of Richard “Dimples” Fields 1981 “I’ve Got to Learn to Say No.” However, when comparing the two versions, the duet has a different set of lyrics, so it’s not an exact cover, and the title was shortened. Both songs are executed brilliantly, but the duet allows for each singer to show-off the voices they have grown into.
Today would have been George Michael’s 58th birthday, so, as always, June’s Monthly Mixtape review celebrates Michael, today by featuring this often forgotten duet.
“Learn to Say No”–The Duet
There’s an energy that comes with the opening instrumental of the song, and it will pave the way for the emotional lyrics. A curiosity lives in this instrumental, as well as an attraction. Immediately, the song emits a strong gravitational pull for the listeners.
Cue George and his powerhouse voice! The first lyrics the audience hears are “Too strong”, followed by a “Whoa” that soars; fans who are used to hearing George Michael’s higher pitches in Wham! songs get a taste of how Michael will grow as a vocalist in 1987 and 1988.
The chorus is introduced right away, and the word “strong” is both eye and ear-catching. Here, “strong” isn’t used as muscular strength, but of course mental and emotional strength. This strength is sensual, where lust and desire overpowers logic. Singing together, Michael and Watley admit that “something is wrong.” They know that the attraction is so great that they need to “learn to say no” and curb those desires.
Easier said than done, of course! Michael dives into the first verse, articulating the fact that giving up on this relationship is far from simple. “Playing games” is a topic and phrase that Michael would eventually reference in songs on the Faith album, but it is introduced here, and Michael makes very clear that not taking the relationship seriously or even looking elsewhere for love isn’t an option. Only this his relationship can heal that “hole in his heart.” However, this love doesn’t make sense, and even he admits that he has no clue what he is doing. A battling love/hate feeling arises here as Michael says he can’t leave this relationship, yet he keeps coming back for more. He wants it, but then he doesn’t. The last line of that verse is one of the most powerful, especially with Michael’s release of the note, jumping into a higher octave. This love is like a gun, and he wants it pulled away. The mental and emotional battle is underway, and Michael has enough logic to know he should get away and “say no.” But will he do it?
Jody Watley takes over the second verse with as much passion as Michael in the first. She explains that this battle has been ongoing. It’s the same old story time and time again, yet they always fall back into each other’s arms. She analyzes her own logic by admitting that she often plans to leave. Desire, however, overpowers the will, especially because Watley knows that she can eventually get over the heartbreak of ending the relationship. The body, instead, takes control and logic is tossed out the window. Meanwhile, focusing on vocals, Watley’s silky voice and emphasis on specific lyrics mirror Michael’s emotional battle. The pleasure and the pain are apparent in both of singers’ voices.

By the bridge of the song, both Watley and Michael realize that they can’t win this battle. They’ll lie to themselves to keep the relationship going. The repetition of “Gimme that” reiterates that the lust is building and they can’t stay away from each other. This relationship may be toxic, but pleasure will keep winning.
Not much to say about the sax solo except that it echoes the passionate tension of the lyrics!
The end of the song features Watley and Michael repeating lines and riffing off one another. The back and forth sounds as though they are actually having the emotional battle at the same time, which is a very neat effect of a duet. In the middle, Michael sneaks in the line “I’m just a slave to your heart.” The word “slave” has a very strong connotation here. The word itself emphasizes how this battle is never-ending. “Slave” has a very negative connotation in general, but here it is almost good and bad. Because they both like and hate the relationship, the word can be positive or negative, depending on whether they are happy with the relationship or want it to end.
Overall, Michael and Watley’s duet blends their iconic voices not only to emotionally convey the meaning of the song, but to show how each singer would come to stand-out tremendously with their solo albums.
“Dimples'” Original
As mentioned previously, Richard “Dimples” Fields’ version of the song has completely different lyrics, although the instrumental is very similar. Fields’ version was recorded in 1981, but a ’70s disco vibe still rings true throughout the song. Unlike the duet, Fields’ isn’t having issues with one lover, but all of them. Quite simply, he has too darn many of them! He needs to quit being a ladies’ man and settle down with only one of them. This song is very light-hearted and even humorous, where the duet is more emotionally charged and serious.
Both versions of the song still tell the tale of a mental and emotional conflict that has too many tightly-wound knots!
Oops, I Said “Yes” Again!
Sometimes, saying “no” is important for sanity, but the body can overpower the brain. Both the duet and original versions of the song are a joy to listen to. The premise of each one is generally the same, but the duet features two powerhouse singers who make the song just as addicting as the toxic relationship! Who can say “no” to George Michael and Jody Watley?!
Before You Go…
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