What traits make you an old soul? Below you’ll find a list of traits (which is in no particular order) that I’ve come across in my reading and in my personal experience. Will you agree? Maybe you’ll find that you are an old soul after all!

1. The Old Soul is Rational
Old souls don’t rush their decisions. They carefully contemplate the most practical solution or answer. They don’t see the value of acting on a whim. In fact, old souls are usually advice-givers.

2. The Old Soul is Loyal and Trustworthy
I began thinking about this trait while researching Croatia. Croatians are loyal to each other and are committed to helping each other, especially family members. Of course, you can be an old soul and have no Croatian blood flowing through your veins (unlike me!). Nonetheless, the old soul is someone who can be counted on. The old soul is reliable.

3. The Old Soul is Often an Introvert
Not all old souls are introverted, but many are. These old souls need time alone in order to contemplate and make informed decisions. At the same time, they need to focus on their own needs and desires after spending an extended amount of time with other people.
4. The Old Soul Loves to Learn
As a college student, learning is embedded in my “job description.” However, I admit that I enjoy learning new things, especially about my passions and interests. Old souls are curious about the world around them. After all, how can you help change the world and make important decisions if you don’t learn and stay informed. Plus, your wealth of knowledge can be helpful if you find yourself on Jeopardy!.

5. The Old Soul Spends Time with the Older Generation
Younger old souls enjoy spending time with people who are older than them. Young old souls are able to both gain advice from and share interests with the older generation. I honestly wish that I would have appreciated this trait earlier on in my own life. When I was younger, I didn’t mind being around people who were older than me; I just didn’t understand why. It’s refreshing to find people who share your ways of thinking!

6. The Old Soul Isn’t Obsessed with Current Trends
Tyler, one of my book characters, is up with all of the current trends, although by current I mean the ’80s–think denim, Star Wars, cherry cola. Nonetheless, Tyler is certainly not an old soul. Old souls take pleasure in things of the past (see number 7) or in things that aren’t as popular. However, this is not to say that we old souls don’t like current trends. Growing up, I may not have been a Jonas Brothers fan, but I took part in the Silly Bandz phase–yes, you may laugh. True, I may have three old decades’ worth of music bouncing between my ears, but I still appreciate some of today’s artists (OneRepublic and Imagine Dragons, if we’re being specific).You get the gist.

7. The Old Soul Appreciates Classics
Finally, and perhaps most importantly, the old soul loves classics–literature, music, movies and TV, cars…need I go on? Personally, I find this trait to be the most exciting and the most frustrating alongside of all the rest. I pride myself in knowing the classics, but, when you’re young, it’s hard to relate to others your age when no one has a clue who or what you’re chattering about! This struggle is likely why younger old souls seek out older generations. On the other hand, old souls really create their own little worlds, even if those worlds are recreations of the past they never knew. This world can truly be a much needed escape. After all, how will the classics remain alive without young old souls?

Reference/Further Reading:
https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/15-signs-youre-old-soul.htmlJoin the Discussion
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